That's the title of the afternoon session with Dan Kimball. Dan stressed that while we must uphold truth, how we deliver that truth--as "missional theologians."
"The covenant of marriage" is so key that in Dan's church, it's considered part of core doctrine. Dan teaches at least once a year on relationships/sexuality. An irenic spirit in teaching on these matters is essential.
Dan showed the rather notorious clip from the now defunct TV show "West Wing." He showed this clip at VFC, and then deal with each shibboleth raised by the pseudo-president played by Martin Sheen.